We sat down and shared the 21 most valuable lessons we've learned in our early 20s - from heartbreak and relationships to chasing dreams and setting boundaries. This episode is raw, unfiltered, and full of the hard truths we wish someone had told us sooner.Chapters:0:00 - Intro: The Shift from 21 to 2210:28 - Always Go for the One Who Loves You More13:37 - Get Your Heart Broken (At Least Once)17:04 - Don't Always Be Rational20:35 - You Have to Fall on Your Face21:02 - Embarrassment Isn't Real22:21 - Buy Yourself Lingerie (For You)24:35 - Take Accountability & Be Intentional29:06 - Just Be Productive31:22 - Be Intentional with Your Friends32:42 - Nobody Owes You Anything36:06 - Be Selfish with Yourself39:37 - Fight with Your Parents to Chase Your Dreams46:33 - It's the Damn Phone49:19 - Find Your Community51:53 - Sleep on Big Decisions for 3 Nights55:14 - Pick a Luxury Hobby59:30 - Have a Signature Something1:02:45 - Nobody's Looking1:05:05 - Your Body Speaks to You1:10:00 - Never Go After Someone in a Relationship1:12:26 - Show Yourself Empathy1:15:09 - Practice Gratitude1:20:22 - It's Okay to Have One Bad Birthday1:23:02 - Don't Start a Podcast with Your Best FriendsIncase you’re new here, start here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EXTp6MaxX30&t=0sFollow us on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/45PV3orrW1TDTYV18UnJQ5?si=f505a43378774301✨ NEW EPISODE EVERY THURSDAY! ✨ Follow us on Instagram: @wearebaesharam 🎀Follow the girls on Instagram:🥶 Sanjana: http://www.instagram.com/sanjana_pinto/🐥 Dhritika: http://www.instagram.com/dhritikaaaaa/💅🏽 Ziya: http://www.instagram.com/ziyakhalfay/🌵 Srushti: http://www.instagram.com/srushtirane_/✉️ For all business inquiries, you can reach us at mailto:partnerships@totalisgroup.com